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Joy in the Midst of Sadness
Joy and sadness often seem like opposites, but they can coexist, enriching our human experience. To live a joyful life is not to escape...
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5 QUALITIES OF A JOYFUL LIFE
5 Qualities of a Joyful Life A joyful life is a day-to-day existence in which you: 1. experience deep appreciation for the wonder of...
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Changing Another?
My husband exudes a certain elegance. I wouldn’t call him arrogant or elitist. But it’s obvious. He simply walks with the...
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4 Questions for a New Passover
In this season of Passover we find ourselves in the midst of a new killing spree. Instead of the Pharaoh we have Corona. We’ve all become...
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Creating Union
It seems to me that our country (and our world) is more divided than ever. An interaction with the new husband of a long-time friend at...
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What does NO mean to you?
My mother used to tell me, “No means no.” Not very illuminating. As a teenager, NO was a clear rejection, an invalidation of me. I...
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A Qualified Lover (The Short List)
After two and a half years of an on-again/off-again relationship, Diana called it quits. I asked her why and she said, “We had a big gap...
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The Treasure Mirror
Attractiveness I hear it often – “I’ll be attractive when I lose 20 pounds,” or “get a promotion,” or “a face lift,” or… If you don’t see...
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What it is to be ‘we’
‘we’ is a physical, emotional, and spiritual experience of two or more individuals in which each is fully satisfied in their coexistence....
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The Long Road to a Redemption Story
Identity is a story that comes in three basic parts. First is communion – who we are connected to, who we love; second is agency – what...
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A new cure for insomnia
Do you wake up in the middle of the night and lie awake for too long? I do. Often. I have fallen into an (annoying) habit of awakening...
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What Makes Partners Partners
What distinguishes partnership, whether intimate or business, from all other types of relationship is the declared commitment of each of...
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No Regrets
WHY YOU REALLY CAN’T SAY, “I SHOULD HAVE OR COULD HAVE…” It is tempting and all-too-common to look back and say “I should have done this”...
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